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| Lee and his boo Drita during happier times |
For a quick moment allow me to take my blogger's cap off. I do believe Drita knew who she was marrying. Yet, sometimes love overrides our common sense. It sometimes tilts our moral compass. As a woman I'm truly very sorry that Drita Selmani years ago made the decision to get involved with Lee. It's no skin off my nose what she did or does with her life. However, she had so very much promise. She had the brightest of futures. The truth be told, Drita D'avanzo still has tons of promise. She has an opportunity to make some dreams happen. As a mother, she has the opportunity to give Aleeya & Giselle the brightest of futures. Right now, she just needs to do what's best for them. It's painful for a woman who loves any man to discover he was unfaithful. Though I don't think it should've been a surprise to her. I get that it is painful none the less. My hope is that she heals on her own terms and moves onward & upward.
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| Lee D'avanzo way back when he was a free man! Double click the picture to get a better look. |
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I enjoyed reading your take in this blog. Drita was young when she ignored her father's advice and married Lee. She may have regrets, hindsight is 100%. But she has her beautiful girls, as you said, and she is young with a long future before her and plenty of opportunities she can take advantage of. I wish her the best with the show and much success with her Just Me Cosmetic line.
I don't buy into her Mob Wives persona 100%. I don't agree with all her choices or actions.
At the end of the day, I definitely don't like to see anyone hurting. I truly wish Drita and her children all the success & happiness.
OH Hell No….
I have to admit Mistress this post kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I don’t understand the many hats you are trying to wear. So I’ll just work my way down the post.
The Picture…Total HoTTie he is! I love big thick beefy men. I am more attracted to a man’s muscular chest and big arms than anything else. And for me I like walking into a place with a tough street guy. Walking in with the accountant type doesn’t command the same respect.
Drita got exactly what she wanted when she married Lee. Drita was no stranger to him or his lifestyle. Di-ent he date her “best friend” Karen for many years? Yes he did! And she chose to date him regardless. It also seems to me that any promise Drita had as a child went out the window when she was a teenager by hanging with a rough crowd. Of course I feel bad for Drita, but what comes around goes around. And who knows if this was the first time she’s known of extra marital affairs…Oh that’s right…you know!!!! Really?
As a reader of this blog and in general I have a question.
What is the point of commenting on facts you don’t want to share with your readers. What is your obsession with the salon scene story anyway? For someone who’s head is spinning you should know if this is true or not, IMO. AND YES THIS IS ABOUT “THE OTHER WOMEN”, just as much as it’s about Lee and Drita. Why would you feel the need to protect her identity yet throw Drita under the bus for how she found out?
I take issue with your comment…”However, somethings we all just don't need to know. As a matter of fact, my head is spinning with all the information I do know & wish the hell I didn't. “
How noble of you to make that decision for me. That I don’t NEED to know. Which by the way was pretty easy to figure out anyway. I could really care less about a salon I’m never going to go to anyway.
Honestly, you have no idea what it’s like to live 24/7 in this life. I know you were in a serious relationship and was close to a ganster at one point in your life. But you walked away. And that is not that same thing as being born and raised in that life or being married and living with someone who makes their living in this life. I’m sorry but it’s not. And so for me to hear the “babe in the woods” stories is just not believable. And why I loved Andrea story last night. Women in the life are not the Mother Teresa’s of Mobville. In my time I could run with the big dogs, still can. But like you and Drita and Karen I wanted different for my daughters. No more hotels, broken up houses, drugs, violence, drunks, fear, I could go on and on…but you get the picture. We’re on the same team Mistress, just needed to vent my opinion.
There is always Scope or Listerine.
Yeah, Team Mob Wives Blogspot!
I think Lee looks a lot like Ernest Borgnine when he played Marty.
Anon, I love that movie and now that you mention it, there is a ressemblance,
Great blog Mob Mistres!!! Lee is fine. What is up w/ Harleys Angel?
Marissa Darling, Nothings up with me babe! I speak my mind and shoot straight from the hip.
Thank you Marissa, I am glad you liked it.
As far as Harley is concerned, she has her opinion. As always I don't worry about someone's opinion of my viewpoint or perspective. They get it or not. They agree or not. Either way I've made my point in the fashion that I see fit. I hope you keep reading our site when your time permits. I am back to bed. Being ill is no fun. :(
I am glad season 2 will be starting up by the fall. I am looking forward to the seeing what Karen has planned for Drita! I wonder too if Drita was looking at Lee the whole time Karen was with him and just waiting for her chance to sneak in!I love Renee also, she is about loyalty. This is something that Karen keeps stressing to Drita is about loyalty amoung girlfriends/wives. You don't sleep with your girlfriend, who you lived with, boyfriend when her back is turned. Carla is really boring. Only thing I can say about her is hopefully her husband/soon to be ex will spice up her storyline. Lastly, do not believe Drita will divorce Lee!! She is too in love with him. If he cheated on Karen why wouldn't he cheat on you?? You so special? Rosey
I love your blog, don't care either way who the other woman or should I say... "women"? If it's meant to come out, it will.... Can't comment on the "lifestyle" cuz I've never experienced it. I love muscular men but, Lee... really?? Not my type, what so ever!!! Too much beef!!! lol!! And not that good looking, at least to me. Drita is like every other woman on this earth. period. Except that her life is on camera 24/7 and then edited for tv. Before MobWives, never even heard of her. So, yeah she's gonna be happy, sad, upset, get her feelings hurt, act tough, fight, get her heart broken, have ppl talk about her, good/bad and still keep going strong & hard, raising her kids, keeping her house and doing her. Cuz that's what real women do, with or w/o the "lifestyle" Honestly, forget the "supposed" cheating, I'd leave Lee's broken ass, just for the fact that he's been in jail 95 and 1/2% of thier relationship. Just enough to get her prego 2x and back to jail!!! You have to ask yourself... at what point do ppl sit back and say "no, this isn't working & before I get my heart broken and stomped all over, let me remove myself from this situation!"Anyway, It's my first day following and I hope many more to come!!!
@Rosey... I agree with every single word you said 100%!!!!Nobodies too special to get cheated on!!!! It's messed up that it happens but, it does..... Been thru it before.. My ex cheated on me and I left, he stood with the girl and cheated on her (like I told her he was and she didn't believe me.)and what happened?? you guessed it!! He not only cheated with multiple skanks but got one prego twice!! sufice to say "a cheater and dog (male or female) alwayz one!!!
wow that is NOT what i expected lee to look like! i was thinking a little more cut, not so beefy. he isn't bad looking, but not that fine.
No matter their what they do in their work, men in this lifestyle do not usually bring harm to their own families.
Karen is not "mob like" She is down right ghetto! She is so jealous of Drita! She hammered on and on about Dritas loyalty but dismisses the fact she slept with one of Dritas boyfriends before she was with Lee! She talks bout Carla then asks her to lunch,and when she realizes Carla is a true friend to Drita she then shows her true colors.She has no cooth about her. her actions her threats have to be an embarrassment to her 12 year old daughter she left at home. That right there sums up who she is.
What would you know about "mob like"?
And more importantly how is she "ghetto" compared to the other Mob Wives.
All the Mob Wives cuss. Most of the Mob Wives have gotten into each others' faces.
Exactly what is "ghetto" about any of these women? Your statement in of itself is laced with prejudice. You assume those who live in a underprivilege community conduct themselves in a certain way.
It amazes me that women who have grown up with privilege that cuss & have hot tempers are all of the sudden coined "ghetto".
As Joshyy has stated, "... miss me with the bullshit!"
Lee is hot! I want a wise guy... Give me all your money and give me all your bizidualls
Newbee here but I am loving this blog. Just a comment on Karen bring ghetto vs moblike. I am from the ghetto of Philly known as the badlands 3rd & York Sts. in case anyone is familiar. Although I was raised in the ghetto I was fortunate enough to have parents & grandparents that sheltered me & were very strict about school & church. I do not consider myself to be ghetto. With that being said I have also had the opinion that Karen sends more ghetto than mob. Her overall attitude is that if a hoodrat not a typical mob princess. And her mouth is the worst of all of them. So bring from the ghetto the term is less based on underpriledged upbringing and more based on a dirty street thug mentality. Although I can't speak on mob life it does intrigue me as far as the image portrayed. They may be around thugs & criminals....their mouths may swear alot but there is just a refinem ent about them that differentiates them from bring ghetto.
I don't know how one acts ghetto. The term ghetto originated during WW2. The nazi's made the jewish people live in certain areas with little resources because they were considered less than. Eventually many were moved concentration camps a.k.a. death camps.
Today, the term identifies an area with a certain socio economic level. I've might all sorts of individuals who have lived in the ghetto. They do not act one particular way. They are individuals. So I do not understand how one acts ghetto.
I'd also like to point out all of the Mob Wives curse. Most of the Mob Wives have gotten into physical altercations. So, I find it odd that individuals like to refer to one as ghetto. When the truth is many of them share a similar way of carrying themselves. It's also revealing the one coined ghetto is the one who has a child with an African American.
Thanks for sharing your opinions. I think the term ghetto is offensive & now a convenient code word for black/minority.
On the subject of whether Drita is "ghetto", in the ghetto, the term simply means ignorant and wild, in that, I know-that-you're-capable-of flying-off-the-handle and doing anything kind of way, because it takes nothing to tic you off, and in that way, yes, Drita is definitely ghetto.
This has nothing to do with color or ethnicity. Anyone can be ghetto.
A ghetto, which is more of a place, is a neighborhood within a city where the overall minority group or groups of the city makes up the majority of a specific neighborhood. The reason people use the word ghetto in reference to the way people act is because of steretypes and racial slures
Just to clarify the much debated definition of "ghetto", the American Heritage Dictionary states: ghetto--A section of a city to which an ethnic or economically depressed minority group is restricted, as by poverty or social pressure.
When placing your own labels or judgements on others, you ought to be familiar with the vocabulary you so loosely place upon others.
I too happen to know Carla's dad and uncles. They were very nice men, but when you get involved in this lifestyle, this is to be expected. I will say this, you never saw one withoutnthenother. Louie and Bruno were always together. Bruno was a true gentleman, great guy. Louis more of a comedian. And then there is daidone, class act.....
It's all part of the lifestyle, you do what you have to do.
HEY, thats me in the picture. I remember that Cancun trip like it was yesterday.
Karens brother Gerard is also in the picture, partly anyway...
Those were the good ol' days!
theres alot one can learn from who posts negetive comments..o yea
Lee is 🔥 love big thick cornbread Fed men n being mob'd up n powerful oh hack yeah what a turn on anytime
Drita does what Drita wants and only Drita can make decisions for hetself.
yes . .. There is a but. But whatever she decides for herself, bad or good she is the one to experience the outcome.
Drita will defend Lee until something happens that causes her not to. It may or may not come to the forefront. But I'll tell you this "It all comes out in the wash".
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