Monday, March 16, 2015

Mob Wives: Our Response To mobwivessitdown.com


Dear


First, to be clear, let us start with a little history as to how the not so positive thoughts about the blogger known as Lizzy of the Mob Wives Sitdown came to be.  We have been blogging about the show Mob Wives before it aired. Lizzy of Mob Wives Sitdown use to read our blog. She often comment that we weren’t fair. We didn’t understand this concept of fair  pertaining to our opinions because we aren't referees in the NFL. We are bloggers who share our opinions. Lizzy would constantly criticize the fact that we were “not nice” to all the mob wives. Mob Mistress and I made our stance clear, 
“We do not have to like all of the Mob Wives.  You do not like our content then do not read our blog”
She’d continue to comment & tweet us telling us how we should write our blog.  Mob Mistress and I made our stance clear again,
“We do not have to like all of the Mob Wives.  If you do great for you, I do not.  I don’t have to lie & pretend I do for your happiness. You do not like our content then do not read our blog.”
Lizzy started her own blog. She announced it would be unbiased. She used the title from the cancelled Mob Wives after talk show The Sitdown. We can count on one hand times we believed she borrowed our information. Can we prove it? No!  Even so, we are sticking to our opinions. Truth be told, Lizzy would be the only one to know for sure on that matter.

It has now come to our attention that she has been conducting some private conversations in Twitter DM about us and our blog. We feel that we should address her unprovoked attack and lies regarding our site.

Mob Mistress always wished her well.

The Mob Wives Sitdown’s Twitter account DMs and Mob Mistresses’ tweets will follow:


DM: She doesn't attack people or blogs?
We'll see about that.

We do not kiss Jennifer Graziano, Renee Graziano or Karen Gravano’s asses.  We are both heterosexual women.  We have never requested Don Dig to kiss the Graziano’s asses.  By the way,  aren’t you the one who was referring to Jennifer Graziano as “Aunt Jenn”?   We’ve even been told that you’re hoping for an invite to A.J.’s wedding. We like the Grazianos. Even so, we know they’re not family and would never assume or hope for an invite to any family gathering.

We are more than okay with a lot of people liking The Mob Wives Sitdown site better than ours.  They pay their internet bill.  We’d hope they’d read content they prefer everyday of the week.  It is on their dime, not ours.  We have to disagree with Lizzy,  she has been very negative towards us.



Mob Mistress and I have NEVER commented on The Mob Wives Sitdown site.  We never asked people to comment negatively on the site either.  We both wish Lizzy would take a seat with that lie.
We challenge her to post our I.P. addresses and city, state we live in as proof we have commented on her site.


Excuse us?  Most of our posts have a singular opinion.  Once in a blue moon, like this post we share BOTH of our stances or opinion.  Who is number 3?  We have other bloggers who post when they want.  We can only hope she stops lying or get her facts straight.


We are co-bloggers.  We both run the site.  M.M. has been busy with her business.  What does her being black have to do with anything?  I am Sicilian.  I was EQUALLY disgusted with the alleged recordings of Natalie Guercio dropping the N-word. She and I were never mad about Natalie Guercio’s allegedly scoring the lead role in Black Point. We did however find her talent manager’s statement hilarious regarding why Miss Guercio isn’t racist, prejudice or bias.  




As you can read Mob Mistress isn’t too pleased with Lizzy.


We sure noticed sharing that someone is black seems to be important to her.  Johnny Ham Familia runs to another blog to tell them sh!t?  What blog?  Neither M.M. or I deal with Mr. Ham.  Mob Mistress stopped dealing with him when he allegedly gave Jennifer Snolis a picture claiming it was M.M to be part of the Mob Wives Chicago Facebook group.  M.M. was highly offended that anyone would think she’d wear statement earrings and a statement necklace at the same time.



M.M. continues on addressing her and gave Lizzy a REAL REASON in regards to our site to cry victim.  Mob Mistress has always been of the opinion there is room for multiple blogs covering the same show.  She doesn’t feel we are competing with ANY OTHER BLOG.  They blog how they see fit and we do the same.  Readers can go to their’s, our’s or all of the blogs.  We are frankly in this to share our interests and blogging as friends.  If we have a reader or five, we’re thankful.

We both would like to thank Lizzy for her continued support as a reader.  If she’s typing about us in DMs we’re sure she pops in to see what’s going on.  And we weren’t only ones on her mind, she claims Emilio sleeps all day and gets high at night.  She goes to instruct an individual to block Underbawse, Carmela and Tweet.  Who does that?





Wow, I didn’t know you could have a million accounts? He must be like the Koch Brothers of the Twitter. I have to end this with thanking Nat G’s crew.  They put the spotlight on Lizzy’s shenanigans.  So we thank you for the proof and even more for the laughs! 

Now make sure you tune into VH1 to catch The Mob Wives Reunion Pt 2.  Which mob wife do you think has the best hair, make up and outfit?


22 comments:

Chasey said...

How immature and petty. In my opinion I can't stand Lizzy's or any of the other blogs, only Mob Wives Blogspot the best of the best! Love you guys! Keep up the great blogging and ignore the haters. :) <3

Anonymous said...

Wow, my head is spinning. What is wrong with people. I think the blogger of mobwivessitdown might be a racist, because why does it matter if MM is Black, to her.
Is the blogger of mobivessitdown one of the women on the show? It sure seems like it. She sounds like she is one of the mobwives. And she writes sort of illiterate.

Mob Mistress said...


"How immature and petty. In my opinion I can't stand Lizzy's or any of the other blogs, only Mob Wives Blogspot the best of the best! Love you guys! Keep up the great blogging and ignore the haters. :) <3”


We really appreciate you taking the time to read & comment on your site. We’re glad you like reading our site! We usually ignore. However, this time the hypocrisy & lies were a bit much for us to just to let is go unaddressed. I hear she has an interview up with Chloe Finch. You might want to go check it out.

"Wow, my head is spinning. What is wrong with people. I think the blogger of mobwivessitdown might be a racist, because why does it matter if MM is Black, to her.
Is the blogger of mobivessitdown one of the women on the show? It sure seems like it. She sounds like she is one of the mobwives. And she writes sort of illiterate.”

I have no idea what is wrong with her beyond her getting on my nerves ages ago with her whining. So I blocked her to end any interaction & moved on 2 years later she’s still has an agenda. I decided this morning I’d address her.

I don’t read her site. So I can’t vouch for her literacy. I can tell you she is definitely not an actual mob wife. She’s a viewer just like the rest of us. Thanks for sharing your opinion on the matter. Do miss part 2 of the Mob Wives Reunion

maharet1965 said...

This Lizzy person appears to be a racist. The color of someone's skin has nothing to do with anything. I am white and am extremely offended by anyone using the " N " word. I have read her blog a couple of times and to me it is a GNat love fest so that was enough for me. Love this blog Ladies !! MM are you going to write on here about your interview with KG ?? I hope so.

Mob Mistress said...

Thank you Maharet! And yes, I will be posting my interview with Karen Gravano. You know I’m the lazy one.

Mob Wives Sit Down said...

Ok so here I go writing under my acct because I want to be honest with you guys. Yes u r 100% correct when you say that I started my blog because I thought that you guys were biased. I have openly said this many times. In reference to mob mistress comment, I read somewhere chaira rt a tweet from u saying something towards the lines of "im a n**er and Im offended by Nat G manager's statement." Therefore I thought you were saying that you were a black person. If Im wrong I apologize. As I have stated many times to your friend Don dig that I am sorry that I upset and disrespected you guys and your blog. That was not my intention. I also want to address your comment about Johnny Ham. He got very upset with me because I had blocked him not once but twice. The first time I blocked him was on my personal page. That was because I felt like he didn't like that I would defend Renee. He said something towards the lines of "I dont deal with Renee I only am a fan of Karen and Ramona's" It was 2 years ago so I can't quite remember how he said it but it was something close to that. I also then blocked him on this blog twitter this year because I felt like when I would tell him something in private he would run and tell ur friend don dig about it. If I'm wrong and he didn't do that then Im very sorry. I will continue to say this again as I have before I am more than happy to talk things out with mob mistress or anyone of you guys for that matter. I only blocked you guys because I felt like everytime I would read your tweets that you guys (mainly don dig) was saying mean things about me making fun of my looks. Saying I need meds Im all kinds of twisted etc. I also felt like you guys didn't want to talk things out with me because 1. Mob Mistress page on twitter is set to private and you all blocked me, 2. Don was always responding speaking on your behalf. Again Im very sorry that this all transpired and I hope we can talk this out somehow.

Mob Wives Sit Down said...

And to the people above no I am not racist.

Amanda Sexton said...

I didn't know Mob Mistress is black, and quite frankly, I don't care. I love reading the posts from Mob Mistress because her writing is sharp and eloquent. She dispenses with the annoying flies with verbal swats that are succinct and straightforward, and veer exquisitely from tart vernacular to to elegant prose. She expresses herself beautifully and I look forward to her posts.
I can't see from her posts what the color of her skin is. I read her posts because I enjoy her perspective and her writing.
Mob Mistress please keep up the good work. Don't waste your time with losers like Lizzy.

Hey you said...

I am looking forward to your Karen Gravano interview to post!

Anonymous said...

I knew for quite a bit of time that one blogger on here was black and I never cared. I like to read the blog for differing points of view and I am always willing to engage in a friendly debate at times. And, there were times that a blogger on here made some sarcastic comments for being extremely respectful but I always took the high road. And, I'll give credit where credit is due because sometimes the same blogger who sometimes made sarcastic comments about my posts also acknowledged that I brought up valid points too.

ChrisGonzWA said...

You guys crack me up. Lizzy, thanks for helping me find my way back here. I often switch out PC's as a part of my blah, blah.

GREAT blog.

Hella kill on the response back.

Anonymous said...

Wow really it seems to me that this blog is trying it's hardest to paint mobwives the sit down in the worst light in order to get the cast members to avoid her.

Mob Mistress said...

"Ok so here I go writing under my acct because I want to be honest with you guys. Yes u r 100% correct when you say that I started my blog because I thought that you guys were biased. I have openly said this many times. In reference to mob mistress comment, I read somewhere chaira rt a tweet from u saying something towards the lines of "im a n**er and Im offended by Nat G manager's statement." Therefore I thought you were saying that you were a black person. If Im wrong I apologize. As I have stated many times to your friend Don dig that I am sorry that I upset and disrespected you guys and your blog. That was not my intention. I also want to address your comment about Johnny Ham. He got very upset with me because I had blocked him not once but twice. The first time I blocked him was on my personal page. That was because I felt like he didn't like that I would defend Renee. He said something towards the lines of "I dont deal with Renee I only am a fan of Karen and Ramona's" It was 2 years ago so I can't quite remember how he said it but it was something close to that. I also then blocked him on this blog twitter this year because I felt like when I would tell him something in private he would run and tell ur friend don dig about it. If I'm wrong and he didn't do that then Im very sorry. I will continue to say this again as I have before I am more than happy to talk things out with mob mistress or anyone of you guys for that matter. I only blocked you guys because I felt like everytime I would read your tweets that you guys (mainly don dig) was saying mean things about me making fun of my looks. Saying I need meds Im all kinds of twisted etc. I also felt like you guys didn't want to talk things out with me because 1. Mob Mistress page on twitter is set to private and you all blocked me, 2. Don was always responding speaking on your behalf. Again Im very sorry that this all transpired and I hope we can talk this out somehow.” -Mob Wives Sitdown

Last night, you continually admitted your lies. Even so, you would try to rationalize them by saying they were based off of Chiara’s RTs, top of our site, blah, blah, blah…..I abhor when people try to rationalize their lies with more lies.

Girl bye!

Chiara Soprano said...

Lizzard, here is my issue with you. I have had you blocked since BEFORE you started your blog and never gave you a second thought. You supposedly had me blocked. How is it you are able to read my timeline? You have John Ham blocked and yet you know he speaks to us? You are sneaking around, spying, taking our blogs and even my tweets about the show. People have come to me and pointed it out. You would have never gotten into this mess questioning whether you are racist or not had you not been on MY timeline reading MM's tweets that I retweeted, and that's by your own admission. You say why can't everyone read both blogs and then, behind our backs you are telling people to block us and our followers? You can't "play" innocent when you are guilty. As for people interpreting your comments as being racist, that's what happens when you identify people by their race. Only you know in your heart of hearts of you are racist, but I suggest that you reflect on why you feel it necessary to bring race into a simple conversation. I also suggest you stop sneaking around and focus on your own blog, a blog that was supposed to counter ours by being unbiased and then turned into a cheap imitation of ours. You owned everything you did with MM, but did you see your own list of admissions? Your countless apologies? You only did so when you were called out on all of them and we supplied the proof. If you have any trolls on my page please remove them. I can assure you I have only one account and am not a troll on yours. ~Chiara

Mob Mistress said...

"Wow really it seems to me that this blog is trying it's hardest to paint mobwives the sit down in the worst light in order to get the cast members to avoid her.”-Anonymous

I didn’t paint her DMs. Lizzy wrote them. When I addressed multiple issues with her she’d come up with a reason. When I would counter her words about were inaccurate and reasoning faulty, I received the following:

“okay your right, I’m sorry”

“I was wrong. I’m sorry.”

She would try to justify herself time & time again. Also, we haven’t posted all of the DMs we have. We just showed you several. There’s ton more DMs we have.

I have purposefully cut all interaction with Lizzy well over 2 years ago. She kept trying to tell me what I should do with my blog. I told her to go start on own and she did. Kudos to her.

So what it seems to you has nothing to do with my experience with this individual. Whether you love her or like, is no skin off my nose.

We addressed the issue on our site. I didn’t take it to her site bothering her. She painted this situation. We chose to let everyone see her artwork.

Mob Mistress said...

"It seems to me that your blog started all of this by having your fans go to @mob__________ blog and start stuff with Lizzy or the people on her bog. As far as the black comment. What else was She supposed to use to describe the person? That is not in anyway a racist term. If the black person had a problem with it they are the racist one!! Period!!
You can't have it both way's. You say that She made a mistake, She apologize for it then you turn around and say that it's not good enough!! That's crap!! Your hypocrites !!! Lizzy took the high road and apologize. She is a good person That's why more people like her blog. Also She post facts not just opinion!!! Thats important!!! The Don needs to Cool down and stay away from Lizzy and the people that post on her blog. He is a stalker!! If he is not doing it you he is for someone!! It would be a wise idea not to have any dealing with him.

Sincerely,
Scorpion's Curse

Hello Curse,

Well at least this time you managed to not name call.

1. Chiara and I started nothing beyond our friendship & this blog.

We ended ALL DEALINGS with Lizzy well OVER 2 YEARS AGO. I blocked her first. Later on Chiara decided to blocked her. Our decisions were independent of one another.

Yet, as little as two weeks ago she DMing people spreading lies about our site, the who, the why, etc.

CHIARA AND I HAVE NEVER SENT ANY FANS OVER TO HER SITE. People visit the sites THEY CHOOSE to, we have no control over who visits where beyond our on choices.

2. As far as the black comment, she’s not suppose to describe me at all. She’s NEVER met me or seen me. My race HAS ZERO to do with the topic of Mob Wives. Her feeling the need to mention someone is black indicates to me that she is prejudice or bias to some extent.

I’d understand if she had set me up on a blind date sharing with my race as a description. “Hey Bob Suzie is going to meet you a 8:00 PM look for a tall, pretty Asian woman. She said she’ll be wearing a blue dress.”

3.I can have it ANYWAY I want on my site. To be clear we typed & still believe Lizzy is liar. An apology doesn’t erase what she has been doing. I don’t have to accept it. I don’t have to like her. I don’t have forgive her. There is absolutely NOTHING about our choice that makes us hypocrites.

The high road would have been for her to not spread lies about our site. She could’ve also respected we wanted no more dealings with her due to her repetitive questions and petty whining.

4. I don’t think liars are good people.

5. What 'more people' are you referring to? Never the less, I for one wouldn’t care if it was our site who has under a half of million views or her site who has over 4 millions views. WE ARE CONTENT WITH THE FACT THAT ANYONE TAKES THE TIME TO VISIT OUR SITE, READ & COMMENT. You’re a perfect example, so thank you!

6. Don is a grown ass man. He does what he wants. He was dealing with Lizzy long after Chiara & I stopped. They seemed friendly to me for a long time. Not once did I go elementary school on him and tell him not to interact with Lizzy. People do what they want to do.

I love Don. PERIOD!

I am an adult. I CHOOSE WHO I DEAL WITH and suggestions regarding that subject is like the Charmin i just wiped my ass with.

I have a suggestion for you stop coming to our site. As you have written you like Lizzy’s, no need to keep coming back here. But of course THAT’S YOUR CHOICE to do whatever you like.

Thanks again for taking your time to visit our site!

Best regards,

Mob Mistress

Wade said...

Mob Wives Sit Down sounds like a Mob Wives show Stan and a Mob Mistress Stan.

Anonymous said...

Wow!
I found this blog when mob wives first came on the air and fell in love. I never knew there were other blogs out there or any strife because I rarely read the comments. I am glad you had your say and am sorry you were brought to this as it's distasteful to air dirty laundry.. I hope this puts the matter to rest now because it makes me uncomfortable to read things of this nature.. sorry =(

Anonymous said...

The drama should stay between the MobWives LOL.
No one should be arguing as there is enough room on the web for all but I do agree with MM that if someone continues to have a go at you and tarnish your site, your character- something needs to be said. She( sit down) felt some type of way, and got called on it. Seems like the theme of the show has moved into real life. " Trust No One". Hopefully a lesson was learned by the other blogger Lizzie. Time for people to stay in their own lanes. Its also sad in this day and age that not only are people displaying racism, but attacking that blogger about her disability. Twitter makes strangers hostile! Hopefully the group here that does wonderful blogging, can move forward and not have to defend themselves anymore. I think you guys ( here) handled yourselves well given the situation :)

Anonymous said...

I just read this here about this other blog, never knew about it. Never knew that Mob Mistress is black, of course, because how would one know that by reading this blog, and the race of the writer is so immaterial, geez. Enjoy this blog so much, I check it out weekly. Thanks Mob Mistress and Chiara!

Anonymous said...

Mob Mistress didn't say she was black but there were posts where it could be easily inferred.

But...what does it matter? She writes interesting blogs and she and I have had some interesting exchanges in the past.

Anonymous said...

WOW!! Jennifer you never stop!! You need to get professional help!! Chiara is minding her own business. I am guessing Don figured out your BS like everyone else has. This would not be the first time you have brought race into a situation. Now you're hating on the grazianos and Karen? Why did they figure you out too. I know drita did cause she called you out on twitter. As soon as she did that you started talking shit about her. Give it up no one is buying it anymore!! Go run your several twitter and Facebook accounts and leave other people ashore!! Chiara has been nothing but respectful.